Thursday, September 29, 2011

How to Tell If Your Man Sees You As Wife Material


You're wondering how to tell if he sees you as wife material. You're crazy about a certain man and you two have been together for a time. You wish he'd just see the future through the same eyes you do. He doesn't though. He's never spoken about marriage while it's something you think about often. You wish there was a way to know whether he even considers you to be a suitable life partner. After all, you want to be realistic and not pine away for a commitment that will never happen. Although you can't possibly read his mind, you can gather some helpful clues from his behavior. Those clues will help you determine whether or not he sees you as his bride-to-be in the future.
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Understanding how to tell if your man sees you as wife material involves reading subtle clues that he's unwittingly giving away. One such clue is the man who is suddenly concerned over his financial situation. Most men who are confirmed bachelors have one concern in life and that's taking care of themselves. They don't think about how they'll pay for a wedding or where they'll find the money to take care of a family. When a man finally meets the woman he sees as his future wife, money becomes something he can't stop thinking about. Every man wants his future wife to be able to feel comfortable financially so if your guy seems preoccupied with his bank account and investment portfolio, this may be why.

You can also tell if he sees you as someone he wants to spend his life with if he's very open about things. Some men, who are still very much thinking about being single, won't allow their girlfriend access to their life. That typically means she doesn't really know his friends, she may not have even met his family and she has little idea what he's doing most of the time. A man like this is thinking in a very independent fashion. He's not even close to considering what type of woman would make the ideal wife for him.

A man always wants to marry a woman he views as near perfect. We all know that we're not perfect but it feels amazing to be with a man who views you as such. One of the clues that a man might be considering you as his future wife is he'll find all your imperfections captivating. He'll love that you're carrying a bit of extra weight around your tummy or he'll find it adorable that you leave the cap off the toothpaste. A man who is critical of you likely doesn't see you as someone he'll want to spend his life with. To him you're a woman that he's spending his right now with and in the future he'll look for someone he feels is more of an ideal match for him.

Thursday, September 1, 2011

7 Tips to Make Your Ideal Man Like You! Here Is What You Need to Know in Order to Succeed With Men

What is your daily routine? Is it home to work, work to home? Do you spend the night simply watching television while eating take-out dinners? Do you usually wait till weekend comes and go out to the mall or have night-outs with friends? Don't you think it is quite boring?
I know that somewhere in your mind you also think of having someone to spend your life with. You are silently looking for a special person who would make you happy and make you life complete. Maybe you feel that he is just a step away or maybe even know him, but you could not express your feelings. Well, do not lose hope just yet. Here are 7 ways to make him fall for you:

Flirt and enjoy. One must not feel stressed or scared whenever your crush is around. Get rid of the pressure so as not to annoy your guy. Try to flirt with him in a subtle way. Just enjoy and have the time of your life.

Be cool. Always control your composure. It is alright to express your feelings, but make sure you are in control. Do not overdo it because you may lose your temper and that would not be good. Men usually want women who are confident and independent.

Be yourself. Stop pretending to be someone you are not. It will always be frustrating. At the very beginning, show off your true color. Make him love you for what and who you are. It would be easier that way instead of being someone else.

Do not seek attention. Act normally. Make him see that you are not eager to have him if he shows little signs of interest. Play a little hard to get. It may be messier if you act so desperately when it comes to him.
Arouse mystery. Show a little bit air of mystery. Let him think of you. Get him curious and make him wonder. Guys find it intriguing to meet a cool, calm, collected girl. He would think what makes you tick.

Talk to him. In case you get to chance to talk to him, simply say "Hi!". A simple gesture would make him know you are interested in him. Never stalk a guy as it would only create trouble.

Be his strength. Men may be strong on the outside but are weak on the inside. Men are considered to be boys at heart. Whenever your man feels down and at the lowest point of his life, be sure to be by his side. He needs to have someone he can depend upon and that is where you can show your strength. Help him without hesitation. Make him feel your presence and that he can have your shoulders to lean on. In time, he may be able to ask you to be his girl once you have achieved this.